ABUSIVE.

Hurm..this is a serious topic, it's about a treatment from a person to other person,
especially between opposite sex. We heard too many stories about being abused
by their partner. Usually, a treatment from a man to a woman. Yes!
Macam-macam dengar pasal husband pukul wife, tunang pukul tunang,
bf pukul gf just for a small matter.

Well, abusive relationship or domestic violence is about gaining
and maintaining total control over you. An abuser doesn't play fair.
Abusers use fear, guilt, shame and intimidation to wear you down and keep
you under his thumb. Your abuser may also threaten you or hurt you.

Wait a minute!! Are you serious man by beating a woman real hard
till bruises all over her body can teach her well. Well! No no no!
Ergh! Tak tau nak cakap macam mane pasal ni, sangat lah tak 
patut main pukul-pukul. Okay, first! Anger management memang teruk for sure.
Since you are such an abusive person, why you are so interested in
having a romance relationship, cause you are not fit into it.

And woman, I just can't understand why you are so committed into a bloody
and such a painful relationship? Love? Huh.. Lame..Well, as far as
I can see, abusive person is a very good lover, a love
whisperer seriously. He can persuade you by not leaving him with
flowery words with the right intonations.  The body is yours, rather than letting
him beat and abuse you up, I think you should bang your head or punch your face
by yourself. At least ko buat sendiri, bengang pun diri senditi je. Hahak!

IMPORTANTE! HOW TO ESCAPE:

1) Acknowledge the existence of abuse.
2) Reach out for help.
3) Use a safe computer.
4) Make every effort to address the underlying issues that led you to being in
a dysfunctional relationship.
5) Get to the bottom of things.

(di atas ialah saranan pakar psikologi)

SARANAN SAFURA KAMIL:
1) walk away, don't have to be so baik and wishing for a miracle.
2) go learn some martial arts ( hand by hand combat @ with weapons)
3) lodge a police report.
4) jangan mengadu kalau tak nak buat 1, 2 & 3.





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